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Elements of Romance in BaZi Astrology

One of the popular uses of BaZi Analysis is compatibility analysis. Now, compatibility analysis is not just about the compatibility between two people who want to get married, although that is the predominant type of analysis that most people are interested in. The compatibility analysis can also be extended to business partners and employees. However, since most people are interested in the variety of relationship compatibility, that is what I will discuss today.

There are a lot of things to write about compatibility, but I’ll stick to a brief overview and focus on the example we have today.

First we need to understand what is the meaning of the word ‘compatibility’. Compatibility in BaZi does not mean attraction, rather it means that you have a connection to each other. On a basic level, they ‘get along’. This variety of compatibility is quite different from the Western concept of ‘The One’ or soul mate that many people are familiar with when it comes to romantic relationships. In BaZi, many people can be ‘The One’, so the focus in BaZi is not WHO this person is, but what qualities this person has, so you can ‘pick’ them when they arrive on the scene, so to speak. .

Of course, in BaZi, there are also pull factors, elements in a person that draw us to them. But attraction is not the only reason you settle down with someone or something to spend the rest of your life with someone. Attraction factors explain why we are attracted to someone, while compatibility indicates whether or not we can be in a long-term relationship with someone. When it comes to relationships, attraction and compatibility must be considered along with the overall question of whether or not the person is right for a long-term relationship or marriage. Sometimes some people just aren’t the type to get married or just aren’t in the right frame of mind, or at the time in their life when they should be getting married. These are all considerations that come into play when a BaZi consultant is looking at a compatibility analysis between two people and is asked about the topic of romantic compatibility.

When two people meet…

Let’s take a look at this couple’s BaZi and see how BaZi can be used to determine compatibility. The lady is a Jia Wood day master and the man is a Ren Water day master. When looking at a relationship, we must remember that in BaZi, compatibility and attraction are not always the same. Now, why is this Jia Wood lady attracted to this Ren Water guy?

One way to understand why a person is attracted to another person is to literally understand what is on their mind. What is the wavelength, so to speak, and what kind of signals are they receptive? The biggest influence on any person’s BaZi chart is the month of birth, known as Ti Gong or Yue Ling. The element that dominates the month of birth determines many things about the person: his basic nature, his innate character, his likes, his dislikes, and most importantly, dictates his attitude towards life and what matters most to him.

Now, if there is a favorable element in the month, that indicates that you will be attracted to the “right” people, so to speak. But if the element is not a favorable element, then the attraction is not positive. What do we understand by positive attraction? It means that the relationship is favorable and that the person you are attracted to is a positive influence, or whose presence in your life brings positive benefits.

Now, let’s take a look at our Jia Wood Lady. She is born in the month of Hai (Pig). Hai (Pig) is part of the Winter season, when the Water is very strong. So, Water attracts her, particularly Ren Water, which is the type of Water that is the Hidden Stem within Hai (Pig). And which Day Master is her partner? Laugh Water.

Of course, one cannot simply extrapolate that because someone is attracted to Ren Water Day Masters, whatever Ren Water is is attractive to this Jia Wood Lady. It’s not as simple as that: there is more to the magic of attraction than just having one item in mind. Jia Wood Lady’s letter is cold, as Wood was born in winter. So what this graphic needs is some fire, to help warm it up and bring it to life.

Her attraction to this particular Ren Water knight can be explained by looking at her chart. The master of the day of the knight Ren Water is sitting on Wu (horse), which contains the hidden stem of Ding fire. So, our Jia Wood Lady is attracted to this gentleman Ren Water because her graphic contains elements that she likes, and also elements that she is attracted to because these are elements that she already has in mind. In BaZi, we call this affinity.

Also, if you look at the chart of the Wood Lady Jia, you will notice that she is passing through the Ren Yin (Water Tiger) Pillars of Luck. Ren Water has stood out and has become evident; therefore, the person she is attracted to has entered her life. In BaZi, we call this affinity. It explains why people are attracted to certain people, or why certain people, at certain times in our lives, often cross our paths, or for that matter, never seem to cross our paths.

Affinity is not always good. You can have an affinity with something that is negative. Affinity does not justify that something is good or bad, but it is simply a BaZi term to explain a connection, a synchronicity if you will.

I want the divorce…

Now, this relationship between Mrs. Jia Wood and the Ren Water boy did not last. In fact, they divorced. Why? First of all, these letters belong to people who are not the type to marry, in the sense that their personality and character make it difficult for them to have a lasting relationship.

Jia Wood’s lady is a strong Jia Wood, born in the Water season, which is her Resource star. Her husband’s star, which is Xin Metal, is not strong enough to control her. Therefore, the relationship is one in which she is extremely headstrong and he is desperately trying to control her. She imagines a Swiss army knife trying to cut down a California redwood: that’s her relationship. In addition, the palace of the wife of the lady Jia Wood has a combined destruction relationship between the Yin (Tiger) and the Hai (Pig). This indicates that your relationships start off well and then end or go to hell at the end.

But it takes two to tango as they say. Mr. Ren Water’s painting is also problematic from a relationship perspective. In his chart, his Ren Water Day Master is weak, as he was born in the month of Mao (Rabbit), which is the peak of Wood’s season. When wood is strong, water is weak. However, his wife star, which is the element of Fire, is born in the season of Resources, since Wood feeds Fire. So in his graph, the weak Ren Water is struggling to control the strong fire, a bit like using saliva to put out a barbecue fire. Generally, in a compatibility analysis, the strength of the Day Masters of the two parties in question is considered. This is a good way to assess the ‘readiness’ of the parties for a relationship. Generally, the male should be strong enough to control the spouse star, while the female should not be too strong to counter the spouse star.

Furthermore, Mr. Ren Water has two spouse elements, and one of those spouse elements is in a Fu Yin relationship with his current pillar. A Fu Yin indicates a sad event in the person’s life and, in the case of Mr. Ren Water, it relates to his relationship and therefore the divorce from him. In Mr. Ren Water’s case, his wife opted to divorce him by SMS and apparently has a prenuptial agreement to protect his multi-million dollar fortune. Who is Mr. Ren Water? He is none other than Kevin Federline and his wife Jia Wood is pop star Britney Spears.

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