How to know if a guy will miss you if you give him space: will distance bring him closer?
Too often, a couple discovers that being too familiar breeds contempt for each other. Have you been making your boyfriend nervous lately? Have you found him lethargic and insensitive to your needs? It may be that you need to get away from him for a while so that he misses you and knows your worth. Here are some tips that will tell you why a little distance is good.
It will make him realize how much you mean to him.
The fact that you’re suddenly not around him to pester him and even coddle him all day is going to hit him like a ton of bricks! He’ll realize how much he depends on you for the little things and how much he really loves you. You’ll suddenly seem like the most important person in his life.
It will keep him from taking you for granted.
The fact that you are no longer around will make him take stock of the situation and also realize that he has completely taken you for granted every step of the way! He will regret and regret his casual behavior towards you and wonder if his selfish attitude has made you lose interest in him and made you leave.
It will make him curious about you.
The fact that you have taken a step to leave, even for the first time, has made him sit up and take notice! He can’t help but admire your courage and wonder where this sudden little “breakup” will lead to the relationship. He will not only try to get in touch with you, but he will start to miss you terribly.
It will make me afraid of losing you
One of the first things that will cross your mind when you put some distance between you and provide space, is if you have found someone else! A little bit of jealousy is good and will make him get in shape and regret any bad behavior on his part. He will be afraid of losing you and will want to get you back.
It will make you thank you for your understanding.
The fact that you want to show him that you understand his need for space will make him want you more. Men need to be able to hang out with their friends and do “guy things” with their friends. If you can respect this need and give him the space he needs, it will only strengthen your relationship.
You will weigh the pros and cons of the relationship.
Being away from him and letting him fend for himself for a while will make him take things and the relationship seriously. He will begin to weigh the pros and cons and make a decision regarding you. He will be able to face his feelings and realize the depth of his feelings for you.
He might realize that he can’t do without you after all.
Even though you were getting into his hair and he wanted his space, your not being in his everyday life will make him want you back desperately. If you managed to make a mark in his life and found your “niche” in his heart, he will find that he cannot do without you for long.