The symbiotic relationship between men and women
When living in an environment devoid of sexual stimuli (such as one without women), most men cease all forms of sexual activity. For example, the cycle of arousal for men who are locked up in prison without access to any type of visual media (magazines, television and the Internet) stops. This illustrates an interesting relationship between arousal and sexual desire. A man’s sex drive can be triggered by his physical proximity to a woman.
Men’s responsiveness declines with age because male orgasm depends on the physical process of maintaining an erection. Masturbation is the first major outlet to disappear from men’s sexual stories, indicating that male arousal comes primarily from sexual activity with a lover. Men who leave their women for younger lovers feel younger (and more virile!) Because of the ease with which they are turned on by a young woman’s body.
Imagine growing up alone on a desert island without any contact with other people. As a woman, I am sure that I would have no reason to discover orgasm. My only source of arousal is the awareness that my body turns men on. My fantasies focus on male responses, male sex drive, and the idea of ​​penetration. In other words, without men I have nothing to fantasize about. Of course, the same is true for a child growing up on a desert island. Very few children (0.81%) experience “spontaneous ejaculation”. Both masturbation and sex dreams depend on the use of a person’s creative imagination, whether it be recalling or embellishing an experience with a real-life lover.
My own sexual awareness arose when men first noticed my breasts. The function of the female breast is clear: to breastfeed a baby. But the breasts also represent the anatomy that most clearly distinguishes women from men. Women’s bodies are “sexy” because they are soft and fleshy (as opposed to hard and muscular). Although they are just as sensitive at any age, women are less attractive to men when they no longer seem fertile. This explains why young women are more motivated by casual sex. It’s not just that men find young women attractive, but an older woman feels less desirable due to the less interest she receives from men.
We speak of love as a disinterested emotion, but there is often more selfish needs involved. Children love their mother for the nurturing and protection she offers. A woman loves a man who is willing to defend and support her. Your willingness to offer you sex ensures your own survival. A man loves a woman who is willing to offer him regular sex. By protecting her, he is also safeguarding your primary sexual outlet. We tend to love people who provide for our emotional needs.