Three Levels of Love – How to Create a Natural Relationship Filled with Love

The three levels of relationships

1/ Friendship

2/ love

3/ Relationship

Whether you’re single and looking for love, or double and experiencing challenges in love, understanding how relationships work and a surefire way to deal with challenges in them can be a huge advantage.

When going through relationship challenges, the key is not to react. Learn to let go.

Love is really a non-attachment. To love someone or something is to let go. Let them be themselves. To love a child is to release the expectations you have of him. Loving your partner means unconditional. It doesn’t matter where they are, it doesn’t matter what they do, it doesn’t matter what they have done or not done. You love them. This is the truth

In moments of challenge, go to the stands. Go sit in peace, if you let go of the bird, and it doesn’t come back, it wasn’t yours. Let Karma play her hands.

Don’t push and push, learn to love.

You can gain a lot of confidence in karma if you know that you have done your best. By following the guidance in the book Sacred Love, you know that you are not the “cause” and therefore you can trust Karma. Let the universe do what it must. Put down your weapons. trust karma

If you grab you are interfering. If you refuse, you are interfering. Maintain your space and deal with emotions as they arise, without reaction or action. Hold the space of love, trust that if you stay in this space, then Karma will play its hand.

All relationships should be based on three things.

The ground must be solid and built on friendship. If there is friendship, then the worst result of heartbreak is a beautiful place with a person we want to care for and love. So if there is drama, consider your lover as a friend. Offer friendship as an alternative to relationship. If you can’t be friends with someone you want to be in a relationship with, then you’ve been exposed as a phony. Friendship means wishing someone happiness and doing what you can to help them. If you can’t be friends with someone, how can you have a relationship with them? This is the base layer that needs to be really genuine and solid. In other words, if you wouldn’t be friends with the person you’re in a relationship with (if there wasn’t a relationship), then really, your relationship is killing both of you.

The second level, once the friendship is established, is love. This kind of Love must be unconditional love. To love means to release and hold at the same time. Love is the willingness to let the bird fly and know that if it’s meant to be yours, it will come back. This is the second level. Knowing how to maintain love for someone, even if they don’t want to be in a relationship with you, is the gift of inner wealth. Love is not a condition that is imposed on someone. Unconditional love, the foundation of REAL relationships, has no IF. There is no IF. There is no condition for the love that sustains a relationship. Love is the foundation from which the emotional, physical, and conditional experience of the relationship can grow. If you or your partner cannot understand this concept of unconditional love, then everything that is built in the relationship is temporary. Love must, in its purest form, be unconditional.

The third level is the relationship. A relationship that is based on friendship, motivated by love, has nowhere to fall. The worst that can happen is that you end up loving a person you like, but you have no control over them. The relationship is the cream of the cake, the self-satisfaction of a dynamic between two humans. Emotional. material, experiential and personal, a wonderful expression of all that sustains it. A relationship with someone is the crown, but it cannot be allowed to exist in the absence of a willingness to be a friend and to love (hence release) unconditionally. The relationship may come and go, but the readiness for friendship and love is the truth that lives beneath it. You should always know that the worst that can happen, if the relationship is lost, is that you come to love someone you like, but now, you just can’t control it.

To be a good friend, you’ll need to feel that your dreams, hopes, and ambitions are your own. They are portable, adaptable and transferable. If they do not manifest in the company of one person, they will manifest in the company of others. Relationships don’t exist to make your dreams manifest. Relationships are part of the process. Trust nature on this. Let yourself be guided by it, learn to adapt to the changing tides of life. Keep your dreams and purposes sacred, allow nature to intervene in the dynamics through which they manifest.

To know love, unconditional love, is to understand the difference between your expectations and your love. People can reject your expectations, they can’t reject your love. Keep your love cantering in your heart. Know that you can never stop loving someone, you can only put your mind on the road. Practice this as indicated in Innerwealth – The Book of Love.

The relationship should look like the bubbles in the champagne, the icing on the cake, the cream. The crown. Relationships built on friendship and love are places of celebration. There is a health independence as only friends know. There is a healthy perspective, as only unconditional love can produce. There is a willingness to dance and fight as only the provocation and intimacy of a relationship can create. This is a relationship built on friendship, sustained by inner richness, celebrated in intimacy.

live with spirit

chris walker