You are a bully! Oh shut up, you’re just a wimp!
If you have a child who has been labeled a bully or is being bullied, learning the ways in which we naturally defer is essential for your peace of mind, your child’s positive development, and the foundation that will be laid for their mental and emotional quality of life. .
Understanding the natural elements that make up your child’s individuality, from temperament and multiple intelligences to the role environmental influences play, will increase your bond and your child’s self-esteem.
Your child is exclusively yours
The responses to bad behaviors are not the same for everyone. Your son is not like any other. If you have more than one child, they may have similarities, but they are different children. What works on one is not likely to work on the other. Such a situation creates stress for everyone involved, especially your children because they expect you to have the answers.
When you understand how each child is designed to operate, you will also understand why your child is producing particular behaviors and can then apply workable solutions that produce the desired results for each child. successful parenthood depends on it.
Fundamental Basics
The origin of Psychology was established by Hippocrates, the father of medicine, and it was based on the types of temperament: 4 basic fluids of the body that were later called Choleric, Sanguineous, Phlegmatic and Melancholic. Hippocrates found that specific behaviors were consistent with each particular bodily fluid and that each person’s fluids were consistent. Quite simply: each person has a custom design that produces the behaviors we see.
Temperaments distinguish human behaviors more than any other factor.
Choleric: Focused on what needs to happen and has little concern for anything between them and their target.
Blood: Focused on the why, generally looking for the fun in it and will create it if necessary; Oriented to the “idea”.
Phlegmatic: Focused on who is involved and concerned with the benefit of all. When people are fine, then they are fine.
Melancholia: Focused on how things happen, he seeks to understand the process. The process grounds them; task oriented.
The fundamental basic concepts that distinguish the individuality of each person and having knowledge of these basic concepts can significantly advance your children as individuals, their interaction with others and whether they will be marked or refined as adults due to their childhood experiences.
The foundations of individuality are the foundation for unshakable self-esteem and lay the foundation for resilience in our ever-changing world; every father wants this for his son.
The foundations of individuality are fully revealing to parents and those who work with children. They will totally transform the way you perceive what a person does and you will need to revisit what you have considered “good vs. bad” behaviors, particularly children who have been labeled as “bullies”.
Here is your Consciousness of Individuality!